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Fetish Temptation Luxembourg

Dresscode

If you have the chance to participate at one of our private play parties, you have to follow a strict dresscode! If you are attending one of our munches, a dresscode is not necessary! Please review the difference between a munch and a play party first!

Why a dress code?

The dress code is to discourage people who aren’t in the fetish community from entering the event solely to ogle at the guests, and the other reason is to raise the event’s atmosphere by ensuring guests are dressed excitingly enough to attract attention.
Our parties are different because it has a dark-mysterious sort of atmosphere - everyone is dressed up and everyone looks amazing. 
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What is a fetish dress code?

This generally means dressing sexy, but in a kinky way. Latex, vinyl, leather, corsets and fishnets are all excellent options. Please make some Google researches in advance to know what sort of clothing are encouraged and meet your comfort.

If this is your first time going to a fetish or BDSM party, you may feel a bit odd before you get to the place, but believe us when we say that the more wildly you dress, the more at home you will feel once you step in the door of the party.

Fetish vs. BDSM dress code

Even if you don’t have any fetish wear in your wardrobe or you're not into this kind of dressing-up, we are sure you can find something that would be acceptable at the party. Depending on your D/S status and level of undress that you or your master desire, it could be as simple as a matching bra and panty set with maybe some garters and heels. Lingerie is always welcome at our parties. Corsets, bustiers and cinchers of any sort are quite common. 

If you are a sub, please wear a collar to recognize your status and for females, please avoid trousers, try to make an effort and make your master proud of you. If you are a male dom, you can wear 'smart black'. So at least elegant or leather black trousers, dress shoes and smart shirt would work in that case. Female doms can dress trousers too (no jeans, but latex, leather or fake leather, vinyl...). Female subs or doms who are not in the fetish dressing (yet), may dress at least a black sexy short clubwear dress.
Of course kinky and fetish outfits are encouraged but not enforced.


Fetish attire may include:
leather, latex, synthetic rubber, plastic, nylon, PVC, spandex, garters with fishnets, stainless steel, leather harnesses, gothic, steampunk, dark victorian....

Fetish attire accessories may include:
stiletto heels and boots, corsets, collars + leashes, goggles, handcuffs....

Don't let this partial listing limit you!

Absolutely NO JEANS, T-shirts or sneakers!

Most importantly is to feel good in what you are wearing. It could make or break the outfit. Don’t wear something just because everyone else does, wear it because it makes you feel good, you feel in character or you love how you look in it. That attitude will show in whatever you choose to wear.

You can find many cheap fetish outfits on Amazon. If you are more looking for high quality clothing, then we suggest you to check out the shop Secrets in Trier. 


If you have any questions about the dresscode, please contact us!

Some examples:

Male (dom or sub)

female (dom or sub)

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  • Events
    • Munch
    • Dresscode
    • Munch
    • Code Vestimentaire
  • FAQ & Etiquette
    • Safe BDSM
  • Contact & Registration
  • About Us
  • FAQ & attitudes
    • Sécurité BDSM
  • Contact & Inscription
  • Apropos
  • Links