If you have the chance to participate at one of our private fetish & play parties, you have to follow a strict dress code!
If you're attending one of our munches, a dress code is not necessary, but please make sure you understand the difference between a munch and a play party.
If you're attending one of our munches, a dress code is not necessary, but please make sure you understand the difference between a munch and a play party.
Why a dress code?
Our dress code serves two purposes.
Firstly, it helps to discourage people who aren't part of the fetish community from attending the event solely to ogle at guests.
Secondly, it helps to raise the atmosphere of the event by ensuring that all guests are dressed in a manner that is exciting and attention-grabbing.
Firstly, it helps to discourage people who aren't part of the fetish community from attending the event solely to ogle at guests.
Secondly, it helps to raise the atmosphere of the event by ensuring that all guests are dressed in a manner that is exciting and attention-grabbing.
What is a fetish dress code?
At our parties, the dress code generally means dressing in a sexy, kinky way.
Popular options include latex, vinyl, leather, corsets and fishnets. More details and examples below.
Don't worry if this is your first time attending a fetish or BDSM party; the more wild and kinky your outfit, the more at home you'll feel once you arrive.
Popular options include latex, vinyl, leather, corsets and fishnets. More details and examples below.
Don't worry if this is your first time attending a fetish or BDSM party; the more wild and kinky your outfit, the more at home you'll feel once you arrive.
Fetish vs. BDSM dress code
Even if you don’t have any fetish wear in your wardrobe or you're not into this kind of dressing-up, we are sure you can find something that would be acceptable at the party.
Depending on your D/S status and level of undress that you (or your Dom) desire, it could be as simple as a matching bra and panty set with maybe some garters and heels. Lingerie is always welcome at our parties, you can even come naked with a few accessories. If you are a sub, please wear a collar to show your status.
Depending on your D/S status and level of undress that you (or your Dom) desire, it could be as simple as a matching bra and panty set with maybe some garters and heels. Lingerie is always welcome at our parties, you can even come naked with a few accessories. If you are a sub, please wear a collar to show your status.
✔ Allowed:
- fetish outfits
- corsets, burlesque
- lingerie, garters, nylons, fishnets
- drag, sissy
- Leather, latex, vinyl, plastic, PVC...
- stainless steel, spikes, chains...
- harnesses, cyberpunk, masks, Mad Max, post apocalyptic...
- Alternative, gothic, steampunk, dark Victorian...
- Stiletto heels, high heels, boots
- naked with collars and leashes, gag balls, handcuffs, chasity cages, cock rings...
- sexy club wear attire in spandex, fake leather or transparent material
- everything not suitable for everyday wear
✔ Acceptable (minimum for the first time only!):
- 'smart full black': elegant or leather black trousers, dress shoes with smart shirt
- sexy/glamour short black dress
- sexy/dominant black fabric pencil dress/skirt
- fake leather leggings
❌ Not allowed:
- t-shirts
- jeans
- sneakers
- unexceptional clothes
- carnival or halloween costumes
- everything you can wear in public or vanilla parties
- everything you can wear without anyone turning their heads to you
Some examples:
It's important to note that fetish attire can be enjoyed and worn by anyone regardless of gender, so it's best to avoid using gender-specific language when describing the dress code. Instead, we opt for more neutral and inclusive language that includes everyone.
Where to buy?
You have no excuses anymore!
We created a map just for you with all shops in and around Luxembourg, and those who are further away; but worth a visit: Kinky Shops Map
To be honest, in our area aren't many fetish or alternative shops, so you might first visit all sex shops around and buy some "basic" sexy club wear or lingerie.
In case you are sure about your size, you might also find many items online like amazon and etsy, but also specific fetish and bdsm shops.
If you have any questions about the dress code, please contact us! You can also send pictures of your outfits to proof check.
We created a map just for you with all shops in and around Luxembourg, and those who are further away; but worth a visit: Kinky Shops Map
To be honest, in our area aren't many fetish or alternative shops, so you might first visit all sex shops around and buy some "basic" sexy club wear or lingerie.
In case you are sure about your size, you might also find many items online like amazon and etsy, but also specific fetish and bdsm shops.
If you have any questions about the dress code, please contact us! You can also send pictures of your outfits to proof check.